How to tell if that goth girl is into you, and how to ignore these signs
So, you are out at the club, bar, home, street. As a goth, you’ve seen this amazing girl on the dance floor (because even streets, with the right mind set, can be a dance floor). But how can you tell if she’s actually into you, or wherever you should just go home and spend your time alone in bed again?
Here are some great tips for signs to look out for, and how to completely ignore those signs.
She makes sure that she catches your eyes
Ah, one of the greatest indicators of attraction. A look into your eyes, with a stare from her that is as if she is trying to work out the best way to describe the unique colour of your eyes.
So, what can you do in response? Simply turn away, or look down at the ground and cross your hand across your chest via your neck. Bonus points if you become a perv and sneak a look at her breasts or bottom when she isn’t looking.
She leads you by the hand
Ah, now things might be heating up. She takes your hand and leads you to somewhere else; be it outside, the inner of the dance floor, or a small secluded corner.
So, what should be the perfect reaction here? Well, you can’t be sure that she is interested in you. So, it’s best to completely ignore her, wherever you are. After all, you don’t want to seem too keen, do you?
She dances right against you
Ah, now surely this is a sign? She moves her body against yours, and you can feel her latex/PVC/whatever against you.
But, you still can’t be 100% sure. After all, maybe the place is crowded. Or, even if it is empty, maybe you were just too close and she was marking her territory. It’s probably best to offer a few apologetic words and move away and give her all the space she needs.
She invites you back to her’s
And of course you’ve accepted. You don’t want to seem rude or anything, do you?
Again though, don’t take this as a complete sign of interest. After all, she might just be lonely and looking for a normal friend. It is best now to not make any moves so you seem as non-threatening as possible. You are in her space after all.
She asks you to look down her corset
Well now, how great is this? She’s looking for someone to tell her if it’s possible to see her nipples in that extremely revealing outfit she is wearing.
Of course, you can’t be 100% sure that she is interested in you at this point. After all, it may be that she does actually want some help and advice. Or that she sees you as a platonic friend by now. So it’s best if you don’t actually make any comments. Even if you do decide to enjoy the view.
She invites you into her bed
NOW! This looks promising. And you discover when she disrobes that no only does she wear black, her underwear is also an amazing piece of gothic art. (Or you know, plain or even humourous, but still, she’s goth on the outside!)
But, she could still just be a good host. And those handcuffs she’s tied you up with is probably just so you don’t act on any inpure thoughts you have in the night. So, it’s best to take all of this as a sign of disinterest, and not to say or do anything. You want to seem like a respectful person after all.
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